You’ve just stumbled on the dirty secret of the humidifier business: there are facts taken together that suggest that ultrasonic humidifiers, which I’m guessing are the most popular, are likely the most hazardous to your health as used by most people. (Use with distilled water? No one with any serious need for humidification will do that, too cumbersome/expensive. By serious, I mean you monitor your humidity levels and aren’t say, just using it at night in a bedroom. You live in a dry area, or one that’s seasonally so - e.g. one with real winters & forced air heating).
A very balanced, well reasoned essay on this subject: The case against ultrasonic humidifiers. As the author puts it: maybe they’re ok, but why take the risk? I wish my evaporative humidifier was quieter, but for the most part I’m able to hear it as white noise (i.e. not obtrusive). Steam ones are out for me, they use too much electricity.
Don’t assume because they’re on the market and everyone has them, they can’t possibly be bad. Everyone used to smoke also…